Session Information
Welcome
to the
Dark Side
Many people have come into the scene wishing and needing to serve a Mistress or a Master and have no clue what that really means. If you are a newbie to BDSM you will most likely have a million questions which is perfectly normal. Most Dominants hear these same questions so often that some get annoyed by them ... as some people just wish to just ask questions and will try to use this as free phone sex. And are called wankers by most ProDom's wankers are awful little creatures.
When I first got into the scene I was so very lucky to have some very cool Gay Male Master's willing to guide me in the right direction into becoming a good Dominant. I asked them so many questions and got the reputation as one inquisitive Bitch.
(Which I considered an endearing compliment by the way)
I was given a book to read and have recommended it ever since. I do this for many reasons which I will only list a few here for you now. It will teach you safety, which is very important to me and I can't stress this enough. You might not believe a person but you may believe it if it is in print. If you are just curious then this book will answer your questions.
If you are serious, then you will be able to following through, determine your own limits and boundaries from your free will ... which will change as you grow and expolre your own realm of wonders and awe.
And it will tell you about the life-style, even if you are just an occasional player, you still can reap the benefits from this book, as it does provide wonderful references in the back to Clubs and Organizations around the world that play this way.
And so much more.
I had a sub read this book who has over 17 years experience and they even come away with learning something so as a Newbie, the more you know the better you will play. Your need to learn and explore your own sexuality no matter which side of the whip your on should be important if not desired.
I have recommended this book so much and I assure you now, I get no royalties from doing so, however, if I can teach people how to play safe and sane before ever meeting me then I am doing pretty well and training you too. I do offer a crash course of BDSM 101 which is around three hours for 300.00 if you rather have one on one training which is why I am here.
I also tell subs if people don't play this way then think twice about doing so with them. Rather listen to your gut feelings and know what the real rules are in the BDSM world. It isn't about others telling you listen to your own flags not others slander.
I always give a little test to insure you know what your doing ...
Don't worry it is an open book test
or your experience will tell me what you know.
It takes about one hour and forty minutes to read this,
anything longer then that and you were looking at the pictures to way to long.
Now it is written more for the Male Dom, as for every thousand Male Dom's out playing, there are sadly about fifty females who do this as a Dominant, but the rules are the rules.
It is in your best interest to always be respectful,
do as your told and never blow off a session without a call.
Good Manners can save your ass ... REALLY!
It is now my privilege with Molly Devon's Permission
to provide links now to the book
of which I speak of and how I personally play ....
"SCREW THE ROSES, 
SEND ME THE THORNS"
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I ask only a fair flat rate for a dungeon tribute
My sessions normally are 2 to 4 hours however if you are fun they could be longer. Dungeon tributes are to maintain the dungeon and to provide more toys for our pleasure ... well mine for sure ...
Now when floggers, whips, paddles, candles, and other assorted toys and dungeon things can be bought with
SPERM
this will have to be the way it is ... I am sure when you see that your sessions here are tailored for a live in the moment experience and never repeated and also checking out other Domme's rates you will see I am extremely fair.
I don't need to charge a arm and a leg as I prefer my toys intact it makes BONDAGE so much simpler
Toys are very expensive as you might be aware already ...
Now some of you may have the thought of the old
"I don't pay for play"
and to this I say
It is the snowmobile theory
I buy the Snowmobile,
get the trailer, the warm clothing, helmet, etc.
I get the insurance, pay for the taxes
and you don't want to chip in for gas?
"Get off my fucking snowmobile okay?"
Now you want some "givens" here you go
If you set a session time then follow through and keep it.
I understand things may come up in life so call me as soon as possible and reschedule and or cancel do not ignore what is already been planned or next time
I will ignore you.
Now had you done a no show to me ever, then you would know for my forgiveness a sincere apology, along with lovely flowers
is a perfect way to say your sorry ... along with a payment to me to show your not a game player and make up the complete cost of wasting my time.
this is housed on the ColoradoXchange.com site. When making a payment please put for ** DR Appointment** for reason of transaction. If you prefer not to use it the we can make other payment arrangements just let me know what might work for you.
NO CHECKS EVER !!!!
PLEASE NOTE:
any and all sessions paid for by credit cards must clear prior to session as Money Orders and Cashier Checks too.
There will be no refunds what so ever.
If you need to cancel the session everything will be done to reschedule that session. This is a service of convenience for all of us however chargebacks will not be allowed so be sure before you do this and all should be well.
I am very honest about what I will and will not do,
so it is in your best interest to not get here and think you can talk me into something that will get you only an invitation to the door
on your way out.
You are to come here to be Dominated not play
"let's make a deal"
So deal with this ... I am not going to have SEX with you nor will I do intense blood play and or any of the showers EVER. If this is what your seeking I do know some wonderful local Domina's who do offer "some" of that course you will come to my Dungeon clean and well groomed. Actually I will be honest here, I have never seen a person yet who has not show me this basic respect yet I have done some Double Domme Sessions with another local Domme and the sub just stank from foul body odor which is totally uncalled for and in my opinion so RUDE to others who have a good sniffer. So to be sure take a whiff of yourself and make sure I never get a whiff of any thing foul, which will get you a shower right then and there on YOUR TIME not mine. However I will donate the soap with a smile.
Of course I have sessions with some gentleman who have made arrangements to shower before and or after and I am fine with this.
It is about communication right?
Now I think friendship in and out of the Dungeon is wonderful ...
Some people prefer to keep it at a distance and some are more comfortable giving a call or just sending an email now and then
Great I say but please understand I might really enjoy sessioning with you and may enjoy speaking with you but I do not call subs ever unless it is important like when I moved and needed to give the new number to some which I did recently after my move to a new local location in 2003. And again in 2007 when my partner work partner Lady Switch Fire ripped me off so bad.
My firm belief is that it is your responsibility to stay in touch with a Mistress so please don't be hurt if you never hear from me ...
I am just respecting your privacy in the matter.
And in closing please don't try and ask for any type of discounts.
I have extremely good tribute rates and do offer a longer session.
I reward good behavior and I do this when it pleases me.
There are more then a few who know I have done this by way of a free session yet that is my choice and normally those perks go those who see me often or go above and beyond in showing their gratitude.
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